My wife and soulmate Helen gave me this hip flask in our very early days together. She had it engraved with words of the 13th century German mystic Mechthild of Magdeburg: “However far we be parted, never can we be separated”. Mechthild’s words continue (not on the hip flask but in our hearts): ‘I am in you and you are in Me. We could not be any closer. We two are fused into one, poured into a single mould. Thus, unwearied, we shall remain forever.’